The Cunnilinguist
Edited and Foreword by Susan Harper, PhD
Going down. Eating out. Rug-munching. Speaking in tongues. No matter what you call cunnilingus, talking about it is sometimes uncomfortable and awkward—Until now.
If you've ever been hung up about giving or receiving cunnilingus...or, if you'd just like to ensure you have all the tips and tools of the trade, this book's for you.
The Cunnilinguist is a refreshingly modern guide to oral sex with a sense of humor. Written by a woman with experience at both ends of the tongue, this guide will build your confidence in giving —or receiving— oral sex.
How to Give and Receive Great Oral Sex
Did you know that lesbians report more orgasms than straight women and receiving oral sex can double a woman's chance of orgasm? Those are two findings from a large research study into the differences in orgasm frequency among gay, lesbian, bisexual, and heterosexual men and women. However, fear not; The Cunnilinguist has you covered.
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You'll learn tested tips, tricks and techniques that any giver or receiver can try on how to go down on a woman (or person with female bits!) has insights and tips for readers from beginner to advanced, single to married, and regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Cunnilingus techniques & tips from both ends of the tongue
You'll learn tips about how to: Find and use pleasure points. Move from foreplay to oral sex. Overcome fears and insecurities. Make sex safe, hygienic and fun.
You'll learn next-level tips on how to: Change up your positions. Use fingers, vibrators and dildos. Incorporate roleplay or power play. Spark intimacy before, during and after oral sex.
And you'll learn what not to do!
The Cunnilinguist includes the latest scientific research alongside firsthand advice from a woman with experience on both ends of the tongue. How to perform cunnilingus— cunnilingus tips from both ends of the tongue.
Edited and Foreword by sexuality educator Susan Harper, PhD
Selected excerpts below:
What this book has turned out to be is even more exciting that I had ever hoped. Working closely with Alex to craft a guidebook that could be used by anyone who wants to learn to give or receive good cunnilingus, regardless of gender, has been an adventure. I especially loved that this book focuses on the experience of oral sex for both the giver and the receiver.
The Cunnilinguist is the kind of book I wish I'd had available to my Sociology of Sexuality students. It manages to be both informative and well-researched while also being a fun, irreverent frolic. The description of the vaginal / vulvar / clitoral anatomy is worth the cover price alone, given how many people who possess these structures don't know what they're called or how they work.
This refreshingly modern guide takes the business of giving and receiving pleasure seriously, but never takes itself too seriously. It's full of orgasm-inducing tips and techniques for both giver and receiver, presented with equal doses of good humor and practical, usable information.
—Susan Harper PhD
The Ultimate Gift
Could this be the ultimate gift for your partner? Regardless of gender, sexuality or relationship status, if you're someone who would like to improve your experience of giving or (and?!) receiving cunnilingus this "refreshingly modern guide" might just be the pleasure-inducing gift you're looking for! Read it, gift it and have fun using it! :)
“This book had a lot of good information. My husband and I listened to this together and we got some good tips from it.”
“This was a far better book than I thought it would be. The information appears factual and is delivered very conversationally.”
“I wish I had this when I was a lot younger. It's easy to understand and it's not stiff, excuse the pun. It's even quite funny.”
“It was like listening to a friend who was willing to tell you all she knew about the subject without holding back.”
“Very good information for both the giver and receiver. It's also playful and fun with a great narrator which makes it all the more enjoyable and less embarrassing for both of us.”
“Simply brilliant: lots of information with the zest that comes from an experienced writer and woman.”
“This book contains an incredible amount of information. Lots of naughty puns and innuendos keep the reading light and playful, but it's a truly serious guide.”
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